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How to Take a Fighting Stance Against Codependent, Self-Destructive Behavior

August 8, 2019 by Abby McDonald

It was a hot, sultry day in July when the realization hit me. At first, I tried to deny it. The truth was painful. But I couldn’t escape its certainty.  My family member was better off in my absence than he was in my presence. And as much as I wanted to fix the situation, I couldn’t. Consequences accumulated because of poor choices. Everyone close to the matter seemed to hold their breath, waiting, and then waiting some more. And despite a stark refusal to face reality, it lurked. Continue Reading

The Battle We Ignore: Loved Ones, Addiction, and Lost New Years Resolutions

January 3, 2019 by Abby McDonald

I didn’t plan to write this post for you today. I had an outline for New Year’s possibilities and dreams, goal-setting and fresh starts. But the truth is, that isn’t what was on my heart. Traveling over five hundred miles to my South Carolina home for the holidays brought plenty of opportunity to reflect and look forward. But it also brought a reminder that for some, starting over because of a new date on the calendar isn’t so easy. For some, it’s not even a possibility. We serve a God Continue Reading

When Your Grief is for Someone Still Living {Rays in the Storm Series}

May 5, 2016 by Abby McDonald

Hey friends. Today we conclude our Rays in the Storm series and I want to offer a heartfelt thanks to everyone who has contributed, commented, read, shared and truly made this a series a blessing. We couldn't have done this without you! I spent a lot of time thinking about what I wanted to write for this final post. We've talked about many different types of loss, but there's one we haven't touched on. So today, it's my prayer that I address a delicate but very real topic in a sincere, sensitive Continue Reading

Hi! I'm Abby and I'm so glad you're here. I am a wife and a mom of two very energetic boys and one sweet baby girl. When I'm not chasing them around I love to write about my love for a God who relentlessly pursued me, even during my darkest times. READ MORE...

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I’m reminded of Nehemiah’s words when he rebuilt the wall around Jerusalem:
“I am doing a great work and cannot come down.” Neh. 6:3
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Instagram post 17928538210341735 When we reach that middle ground between the pursuit of a goal or dream and its realization, it’s easy to get discouraged. The newness of beginning is gone, and we may not see the outcome we anticipated. At least, not yet. We may wonder if we’ll ever get there.
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Instagram post 17850388621734900 I almost had a panic attack over the weekend because our Christmas tree isn’t up yet. I’m not even lying. We started a tradition nine years ago of getting a live tree, and each year my husband and I argue about which weekend we’ll go to the tree farm.
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While I love the warmth of a beautiful, lit tree, I’m also reminding myself: this is not a race. When we hear the constant question, “Are you ready for Christmas” it can feel that way, can’t it? 🎄
If you’re feeling the holiday stress today, let me encourage you with this truth: the most important thing you can ready is your heart. Prepare room. Prepare your soul. He wants to come sit with you.
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While my tree may not be up yet, I’m enjoying this lovely @normanrockwellofficial display this afternoon. And right now, that is enough.
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Her personality is exploding in new ways, and I love watching her grow. On Monday, she’ll be 3. And as much as I want to say, “Slow down, baby girl,” I know she won’t listen.
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