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When You’re Waiting for God to Make it Obvious

July 30, 2026 by Abby McDonald

I have always wanted God to make things obvious. As long as I can remember, this longing for God to give me the black-and-white sign telling me which way to go has been constant. And if it had bells and whistles on it, all the better. When my husband and I first got married, we had a saying for these moments when God’s leading was unmistakable. We called them two-by-fours to the head. Now, I realize that description doesn’t sound very pleasant, but if you’ve had one of those moments, you Continue Reading

When You’re Afraid You’ll Make the Wrong Decision

June 25, 2026 by Abby McDonald

We weren’t on the trail for long before we had to make a decision. A fork in the path presented two different options: If we turned to the right, a steep incline of steps and uneven rocks greeted us. But if we stayed left, the incline was more gradual and smooth. Since my husband and I had dogs and this was our first time hiking the trail together, we chose the easier way without hesitation. Later, we discovered that both paths converged at the top of the mountain, leading to the same vista. Continue Reading

4 Reasons We Can Be Confident God Is Pleased

May 21, 2026 by Abby McDonald

The statement still echoed in my head years later. “You can’t please God,” the pastor had told me. This was during a conversation about the tenants of faith. I was being interviewed to make sure I understood the fundamentals of the church’s doctrine before my baptism the following week. But I was confused. Somehow, the pieces didn’t quite fit together, and although I was sprinkled with water the next Sunday, it was years before God’s character was explained in a way that made me want to stay Continue Reading

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Hi! I'm Abby and I'm so glad you're here. I am a wife and a mom of two very energetic boys and one sweet baby girl. When I'm not chasing them around I love to write about my love for a God who relentlessly pursued me, even during my darkest times. READ MORE...

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I can’t believe it’s been 25 years. I had just sta I can’t believe it’s been 25 years. I had just started my first job after graduating from college and was in training every day. A coworker heard about the attack on the Pentagon from a security officer before we received news about the twin towers. For the rest of the day, our training facilitator tried to continue the day as usual but no one was engaged. Some frantically tried to get a hold of loved ones in NYC on their cell phones. Others just sat there in a daze. No one cared about work. 

Today, I pray for all of those who lost loved ones that day in in the days that followed. I pray for our nation and for the sense of unity we had then to be rebirthed. I pray we will not forget the things that matter most. 

*Photo taken at the Flight 93 Memorial in Shanksville, PA.
In world full of noise telling us who we are and w In world full of noise telling us who we are and what we need, these three things remain true. Turn your face toward Him today and listen to His voice. He will never speak to His child with a voice of condemnation.
Each time we say “yes” to God, we leave a trail. W Each time we say “yes” to God, we leave a trail. We leave a path for others to follow and a legacy of faithfulness for them to cling to when the view ahead is unclear. That is what the women and men of the Bible did for us, and it’s what we can do for others when we stop and commemorate moments of victory. 

Commemorating those moments of victory may look like:

📌 Sharing stories of God’s faithfulness with others- your family community, church, etc.

📝 Writing your story for others to read.

🙌🏼 Celebrating steps of faith you’ve taken, what God has done, and how you’ve grown. 

Sometimes we get so focused on what’s next, we forget to create altars of remembrance. We forget to celebrate our progress and what God has done. But each time we do this, we create that trail. We bear witness to the faithfulness of the living God.

Let’s not forget the forget the legacy we leave with each remembered moment today.

#seekhimfirst #hisfaithfulness #faithwriter
Many of us are trying to find certainty in this wo Many of us are trying to find certainty in this world that feels so unstable. Questions can keep us up at night and cause continuous, low-grade anxiety.
 
When will the sickness end?
Will my family member stop running from God?
How will I know whether to take the job?
 
Too often, we go to others first — online “experts,” friends, even pastors — instead of God. Scripture instructs us to seek wise counsel, yet it’s also clear that the most “Wonderful Counselor” is God Himself (Isaiah 9:6, NIV).
 
Thanks be to God, He is ready and willing to speak to us when we come to Him. When we don’t, we miss out on a beautiful gift He offers each of us who calls Him Lord: the ability to hear His voice.
 
Jeremiah reminds us that some things can only be revealed to us by the Creator: “Call to me and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know” (Jeremiah 33:3).
 
This prophet asked God many questions. He longed for justice and wondered why the wicked seemed to prosper. He begged a defiant, wayward Israel to return to the Lord, though they didn’t listen. When it seemed like things couldn’t get worse, Jeremiah was kidnapped by rebels and taken to Egypt. There, in the middle of what seemed like a hopeless situation, the word of the Lord came to him.
 
God reminded Jeremiah that He still had a plan for Israel’s redemption. Every question Jeremiah asked had an answer, even if it didn’t look the way he thought it would.
 
Friend, seeking God for ourselves takes courage. It takes putting aside our desire for immediate answers and practicing patience. But when we do, we foster our ability to hear Him. And it’s always worth it.
 
God, thank You for Your promise to speak to each one of us who calls You Lord. When we’re tempted to trade this for a quick answer, help us remember the priceless gift we have in You. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

➡️ Read the full devo at @proverbs31ministries
I was prepping for a talk when I discovered these I was prepping for a talk when I discovered these notes from two years ago. These were the beginnings of chapter 3 in Surrendering Certainty, The Tree of Life Called Desire. It’s one of my favorite chapters, and it was also one of the most difficult to write. 

But the blessing of writing it and working through the fear, brain fog, and procrastination? One thousand percent worth it. 

Writing, as Hemingway once said, is sometimes like, “drilling out rock and blasting it with charges.” In an age where it’s easier to hop on ChatGPT anytime something gets difficult, can I encourage you to resist the urge?

I believe AI has its place and its benefits, but I also believe we are forfeiting our creativity to a machine. And each time we do, it becomes a little easier to do it without even thinking about the consequences. It’s not worth it. As an editor, I can tell you that AI writing does not sound human; it is quite obviously robotic.

Will it take more time to write through the struggle? Yes. But the One who breathed life into Adam, the Author of Creativity himself, still breathes life into our words and our art. And the struggle is very essence of it. 

Art without struggle isn’t art. It’s merely an imitation. 

So keep pushing back against the resistance and create. I can promise you, you won’t be sorry.

#writinglife #writingcommunity
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I’m not sure how we got here, but my heart is so f I’m not sure how we got here, but my heart is so full. Last night, this guy completed his third graduation in less than one week. He was one of two seniors in his high school class to complete an associates degree while finishing his regular classes through dual enrollment. Not only that, but he achieved this with the highest honor- summa cum laude. 

To say I am proud is an understatement. I can’t wait to see what God has in store next for this amazing young man. 🧑‍🎓💗🎉
It’s cubbing season for coyotes, and they’ve been It’s cubbing season for coyotes, and they’ve been more bold it their search for food. On more than one occasion, we’ve had a pack in our yard late at night, or not far from it. When my husband goes outside with our dog, their calls follow.

But they aren’t calls that sound ominous or threatening. They’re more like playful yipping. A sound that says, “Hey, we just want to play. Come closer. Come play with us.”

And our dog would, if left on his own. His tail wags. His demeanor is unafraid. If not for my husband’s stern voice and command, he probably would run off. Never to return.

It reminded me of the way the enemy often lures us into deception. It’s never with a blazing trumpet or announcement saying, “Hey, come over here and let your soul die a little bit.”

His calls sound like something else altogether. An invitation masqueraded in light, not darkness.

“And no wonder, for Satan himself masquerades as an angel of light.”

2 Corinthians 11:14 NIV

If we’re not armed with the Truth, his arrows will hit their target again and again. 

Here are 3 ways we’re often wrong about how the enemy works:

1. He can’t read our minds.
Satan is not omniscient. He doesn’t know what you’re thinking or have the ability to, as the psalmist says, name a thought that’s on your tongue before you speak it.

2. He knows the Word of God, but twists its meaning.
Our enemy is not ignorant about the Word of God. After all, he is a fallen angel. This is one of the reasons we need to study the Word in its proper context and ask for the Spirit to help us in our understanding.

3. He uses distraction more often than direct invitation.
One of our enemy’s main goals is to distract us from our purposes here on earth- to glorify God, enjoy him, and to help lead others to him. 

Friends, the lies of the enemy are too numerous to name, but we can be sure of this: He’s always telling them. Jesus called him the father of lies. (John 8:44) 

While it’s important to recognize his tactics, our best defense will always be to know the One who defeated him. Because he is greater, and he will lead us to victory. Let’s start there, today and every day.
I listen to so many voices every day, often withou I listen to so many voices every day, often without even questioning them. Sometimes the voices are from other people, whether face to face or online. Sometimes it’s an internal monologue that causes me to question God’s direction:

How can I be sure what God is saying to me? 
God would never ask me to do that, would he?

How about you, friend? Does any of this sound familiar? When we listen to these voices without holding them up to the Truth of God’s Word, we can go down a path God never intended for us. In today’s key verse, the Apostle John warns us not to listen to every voice but to test what we hear:

“Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world” (1 John 4:1).

So how do we know whether a spirit or voice is from God? John goes on to say that voices of truth will acknowledge Jesus Christ as the Son of God. He also says spirits, teachers, or other voices that are not from God will “speak from the viewpoint of the world, and the world listens to them” (1 John 4:5, NIV).

These distinctions may seem simple, but our enemy is skilled at distraction. As we listen to the voices of influence around us, we can ask ourselves questions like:

Is this how God would speak to me?
Is this consistent with God’s character?

Friend, if the answer is “no,” then turn the other way. Don’t listen or look back. Be empowered by the Spirit of Truth within you, and know He wants to see you flourish.

#dailyword #seekhimfirst
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The 5 Days to Life Unstuck Challenge

Are there areas of your life where you can’t seem to find breakthrough? Do you feel as though your keep praying the same prayers over and over, but you’re not getting anywhere?

A life stuck is one that never moves into the fullness Christ created us to have.

This is why I created the “5 Days to Life Unstuck Challenge”. In this 5-day challenge, we will look at five key areas where the enemy likes for us to stay stuck. Then, we will implement a simple, doable mindset shift.

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