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Launch Day, Giveaways and a Free Gift…Oh My!

May 9, 2017 by Abby McDonald

Hello friends! Welcome to my new space! I worked with my friends at Mandy Robertson Media over the last month to create this beautiful site, so I hope you’ll stick around a while and make yourself at home.

As we designed this, I also thought about you- my reader. I want to gift you with something to show my appreciation for your support, so asked myself, “What is the one thing I want my readers to know after visiting here?”

The answer is simple. I want you to know you are enough. I want you to know God’s love for you doesn’t change when you mess up or when you need a do-over five minutes into your day.

I want you to know there is nothing you can do to make him love you any more or any less. He loves you with an unchanging, everlasting love and he delights in his creation- you.

So I wrote you a reminder- The Daughter’s Manifesto: Claiming Christ’s Love When You Feel Less Than Enough.

One of the most amazing things about God is his grace. But it’s also the most difficult concept for us to understand. As a kid, I remember saying a prayer asking Jesus to save me not once, but several times. It seemed too good to be true.

When we face doubt and uncertainty, one sure way to claim confidence is to proclaim the truth. That’s why in The Daughter’s Manifesto, you will find truths to post on your bedroom mirror, to say out loud, and to read whenever you need a reminder of who you are in Christ.

Jesus died so we could walk in freedom, not uncertainty. This is my hope for you- confidence in who you are as a daughter.

If you would like to have this free gift delivered to your inbox, simply sign up for email updates in my sidebar or at the bottom of this post. (If you are already a subscriber you will receive it automatically) I pray it serves as a reminder of the love your Creator has for you, and helps you combat the lie that you have to earn it in any way.

Also, if you subscribe for email updates today, you will be entered to win one of these amazing books!

Books are my love language, and reading is one thing that allows me to breathe deep and unwind. I pray these awesome reads do the same for you, and provide a reason for you to sit down, take a few minutes to yourself, and let the laundry sit.

I will announce the winners of these gifts next Tuesday, May 16th.

Friends, thank you for your support over the past four years of blogging. You push me to keep putting words on the page, even when doubt rears its shadow. God continually speaks to me through your encouragement and kindness, and I will forever be grateful. I hope you enjoy my new home on the web!

 

Finding Hope in Life’s Messes,

Abby

 

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  1. Angela Howard says

    May 9, 2017 at 6:16 am

    So exciting Abby! Praying God will enable your voice to reach far and wide in order to share the hope of Jesus💗

    • Abby McDonald says

      May 9, 2017 at 12:25 pm

      Amen, Angela. That is my prayer too. Thanks so much for visiting today!

  2. Lisa Appelo says

    May 9, 2017 at 6:26 am

    Abby, I’m still exploring all the pages of your new home here, but it’s beautiful! I love the header, especially. I’ve always loved lighthouses. I’m excited for your new space. Xoxo

    • Abby McDonald says

      May 9, 2017 at 12:26 pm

      Thank you, Lisa! I’m excited too. 😀 Carol and Mandy did a fantastic job.

  3. Rebecca L Jones says

    May 9, 2017 at 7:38 am

    I knew nothing about blogging when I started, and I know I still don’t know everything, I’ve been at it almost two years. I like that reading is a love language and let’s you breathe.

    • Abby McDonald says

      May 9, 2017 at 12:27 pm

      I didn’t know anything when I started either! It’s definitely a learning process. 😉

  4. Kristine says

    May 9, 2017 at 10:51 am

    Congratulations Abby! I love the look and feel of your re-designed site!

    • Abby McDonald says

      May 9, 2017 at 12:27 pm

      Thank you so much, Kristine!

  5. Christy Mobley says

    May 9, 2017 at 11:01 am

    Congratualtions Abby!

  6. Julie Lefebure says

    May 9, 2017 at 11:26 am

    Congratulations Abby! I’m loving the new look and am celebrating you today!

  7. Leigh Ellen says

    May 9, 2017 at 12:54 pm

    Abby – your new space is absolutely beautiful! Thank you for faithfully sharing your heart with us through your gift of words! You are a blessing!

    • Abby McDonald says

      May 10, 2017 at 4:37 pm

      Leigh Ellen, you are such a sweet soul. Thank you for stopping by the new place and encouraging me. Love and hugs to you.

  8. bethany mcilrath says

    May 9, 2017 at 3:39 pm

    Congratulations Abby! It’s beautiful : )

    • Abby McDonald says

      May 10, 2017 at 4:37 pm

      Thank you so much, Bethany! It was worth the wait. 🙂

  9. Sabra Penley says

    May 9, 2017 at 4:03 pm

    Beautiful, Abby. Congratulations on the launch of this wonderful website.

    • Abby McDonald says

      May 10, 2017 at 4:38 pm

      So good to see your beautiful face here, Sabra. Thank you for stopping by. <3

  10. Betsy de Cruz says

    May 9, 2017 at 5:50 pm

    Abby! I love your new design, and I LOVE the look of your Daughter’s Manifesto. Can’t wait to read it. Gotta go check my inbox now. 🙂 I will share this on Facebook tomorrow. Too good not to let people know about it!

  11. Trudy says

    May 9, 2017 at 9:07 pm

    This new heading is so inviting, Abby. I love lighthouses and their spiritual significance. Jesus is our Lighthouse who guides us in the dark storms of life. And the subtitle is great, too. We certainly need hope in our messy lives. Your past posts offer so much hope, and I’m certain they will continue to. Congratulations on this new design! Love and hugs to you!

  12. Susan Douglas says

    May 11, 2017 at 4:15 am

    Congrats Abby!! Very Nice. I love your openness and transparency….and your new space!!

  13. Kristi Woods says

    May 11, 2017 at 2:10 pm

    Gorgeous ~ your new diggs are simply gorgeous, Abby. So proud of you and how you’re continuing to march forward.

  14. Ellen Chauvin says

    May 11, 2017 at 11:52 pm

    I love it Abby!

  15. Barbie says

    May 16, 2017 at 4:08 am

    Your new site is gorgeous!

  16. Ginger Harrington says

    May 19, 2017 at 2:52 pm

    Love the new look! Isn’t it fun to update and refresh? Now if I could manage to do this with my home. . .

    • Abby McDonald says

      May 22, 2017 at 1:24 pm

      I hear ya, Ginger! Updating the blog is less work, I think. 😉 Thanks for stopping by!

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